What everyone can't see...
You maybe the best of friends...but when it comes down to 'you',who do you think about?No one else BUT yourself...its kind of like an unwritten rule...in girl world,its every girl for herself...its also survival of the bitchiest...I'm not putting us down here...think about it...very carefully...its so true...i see it everyday...It surprises how we can cover things up so easily...!!
I have this group of girl friends...always hanging out together,always seen together.We're pretty much inseparable...and we're always standing up for eachother...we have our typical kiss on the cheek and a hug when we meet...the giggles when one of our crushes pass,we go shopping together,some people aren't fond of us only cause we're with the so called 'cool' crowd of the college,we know a lot of cute guys...(ha ha)...not braggin but all in all...me and my friends are popular in college...even the seniors like hanging out with us.But...being popular has its price...just how you get to know everything about everyone,everyone gets to know everything about you!
One day,one of our friends,comes upto us and says that she is now dating one of our other friend's ex boyfriend...dating a friend's ex is not right...its like the rules of feminism!Even though the girl was over her ex...she was still surprised how the whole thing happened...but thats not even the main reason...the thing that surprised me the most...was how they both so very easily cover up the hatred developin toward eachother...they still smile so very sweetly at eachother when everyones around...and they still have the whole...''mwah,love ya!'' going on,but once the other has left...the ''I hate that bitch!Omg i can't stand her!'' begins...whats the point?One day...it just took one day to have them both with daggers drawn!Friendship is not something thats based on who is more popular or who has the cuter boyfriend...both are wrong...it was wrong on one's part to date a friend's ex despite knowing that her friend would not be ok with it...and it was also wrong on the other's part to hate her friend for doing so...as ONE guy should not affect a friendship that was supposedly strong.It disgusted me...i felt like an artificial bitch...not cause i had anything to do with it...but because my friends were acting like popularity or what others thought of them mattered more than ever...i told them...i told them how much it surprised me how well they can cover up things.
Most of all it disappointed me.It disappointed me to see how things have changed now...and how things won't ever be the same.
29 comments:
It's a real shame when people stoop that low and put real friendships at stake like that.
And now...its all juss fake... thats why things like that are a huge no no...
Some fake it, some really mean it.
IT is like things doesnt really are like what they appear
But it aint fair at all wen someone makes u the sacrifice rather than standing tall in front of u walking shoulder to shoulder rather than running towards the cute and hot faces they see!
Hunks can come in Millions but friends are just in Dozens and Bunches!
You neva now wen u lose one and wen u do that would be ur most regretful day!
I pity the person who u were talkin bout!
But umm is that person the same i am thinkin bout mich???
lol...i dunno who ur thinkin bout...i doubt if its the same person
=> suga - fakeness personified
=> rohit - nowdays...most of em fake it
I feel u, jus recently I found out 1 of my beswtfriends said that she neva liked me... It bugs but I kno they is truu ppl out there, maybe not her, but othaZ ;-) PEACE
at least you know their TRUE COLORS. had this happen, that this girl claims that í'm her bestfriend. but she says shit about me. i told everyone it's not TRUE. and bestfriend's don't talk shit about each other.
michelle, you'll meet new people and they will turn about better than your those bunch :) it's good that you know how they really are now. before it's TOO LATE!
dopppe I lost my comment :(
Anyways what I saying is that u shouldnt feel like an artificial b###h Michy :) cos u didnt have anything to do with this act...except that they r both ur friends...
**its also survival of the bitchiest...
lol I like that. It's ok to be righteously bitchy :):) I mean to stick out for urself and for ur loved-ones. But na I can never be bitchy with my friends n that too for a guy!
Keshi.
hey ,....
i dont understand one thing .. why should ur friend be upset that some1 is dating her ex ? it so happens that this time itz her friend ... i really dont see whatz wrong !
and abt ur jealousy posts ... gurrrl ...u r attracted to this person ... as simple as that ... and u r unable to stand someone else being closer to him than u ... believe me , itz the start of those ' love ' feelings ... so, watch ur step
and the more possessive u get abt this guy , the more hez gonna run away from u ...
and all ur bitchy feelings etc are mainly coz of the anger u feel towards this guy ...
=> elisa - hahaha totally...u knw a year back i had no hassles @ all...it was my frnds who had all these hassles between them...i don even knw how alluva sudden all these things started happenin to me.thanx a lot :)
=>qb - its so difficult now...ppl u thot were ur best frnd neva really cared...all this time i had a group of frnds tellin me tht they arent the ones tht care bout me...they're so right.
=> elaine - its not like ne1z sayin netin bout me behind my bak..but to see my frnds do so i mean who knowS?they must b doin the same wid me!
=>keshi - hahaha yeah i knw...jeez things r really nasty tween them im gettin scared of those two now.
=>deepa - lol...its too late...still hung up on tht person...n it drives me crazy
Holla!
Michelle loved you seven songs list - and I dmit that I lurve Panic! At the disco.... thought i was the only one who was listening to them.. but i was thankfully wrong! :)
And about the bitchiness thing.. well.. i better keep my mouth shut! :)
lol...i love tht album...a fever u cant sweat...
hahah :P
Being in a clique and seeing two friends tearing their hair out at each other is definitely not something oh so nice...Especially when you hear both of them itching about each other. You can't take sides. that would cause a even bigger division. Just stand middle and try to get a friend over that stuff. Not worth shooting each other's hearts or da clique just because a male has conquered da friend.Hope things go well and ya friend will be able to accept da fact that her friend has broken da rules of feminism.Rather get over it than rat at each other about it. Makes it easier for the group and herself. There is always anotha hunk betta than da ex. Shut me up if i am talking to much..haha:P
lol no u made a lot of sense :) thanx will keep dat in mind
fake smiles! fake hugs! fake friendship!
3 things which i'm unable to do or even accept..till this date..
and know what? my inability to be fake cost me a great deal of 'friends'..
what a world...
=am000nie=
fake smiles! fake hugs! fake friendship!
3 things which i'm unable to do or even accept..till this date..
and know what? my inability to be fake cost me a great deal of 'friends'..
what a world...
=am000nie=
cruel world!!!! :(
hey i wud like 2 tell tht...every dog..in this case bitch will have r day..there will be a day..when things unroll tht u might ne er think of..nd they ll come to know abt it..only if they face it one can understand ..
tiz worse when guys behave lak tat...for however long they can manage to fake it.
It gets terrible when only one o em is the fakey
then they r not friends...just nasty b###hes..lol!
Keshi.
I agree with rohit...however it is tough to decipher what one really shows nowadays...ur right in a way. Survival of the bitchiest lol..but when i read the rest of the post realised it wasnt some corporate issue:p lol..kidding..relax...I think one or 2 best frens are enough..more than that it gets complicated...even i have a grp n all..but i try to keep a distance.
Another lesson i learnt the hard way- see how a person treats others...that's how u judge him/her...n not by hw he/she treats only u!
:)
Religion n frienshp gets me typing...or maybe i think im a know it all..lol I'M sooooo NOT! :p
=>keshi - lolzz
=> ego - yeah well not all of them r my best frnds...they''re pretty close tho n seein two of em fight like tht makes me wonder if they were the same ppl i am frnds wid..n yeah...i have seen tht n i do also judge ppl tht way...its like some of my frnds respect me,but not my other frnds...n it annoys me cuz if they respect me,they gotta respect my frnds too right?
ahaha knw it all :P
=>s.p - (u knw wat tht stands fo doncha :P) but y'knw,more than guys,girls can cover it all up...honestly one thing i like bout guys r tht they're very frank...they don like sumtin,they will come n tell u right then...but gurls nah...they'll talk behind yr back...of course thr r exceptions lol :)
=>karthik - ummm lol i really din get wat yr tryna say...elaborate plz :)
lol thanx :P
lol awwww...thats so sweet!!! :) :)
The thin' is that ex's boyfriend is gonna become her ex too, sooner than later I guess, hope she realizes it..
Neways, how did you manage to get such a bloody good pic I hate you Doesn't matter, I happen to love the pic..
:) i love da pic too !!
thats wat...it struck me...it was superficial all along
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