Monday, November 21, 2005


Backstabber


First you are the best of friends...but then you end up fighting for a stupid reason...A GUY!I have been through this kind of a situation...i've had friends breaking off a very healthy friendly relationship just cause of A GUY!

Take Hilary Duff,Aaron Carter and Lindsay Lohan for example.Hilary and Lindsay were the best of friends until the day Hilary found out Aaron was cheating on her with her best friend Lindsay.Wouldn't it be more mature on their part to talk it out sensibly than just lashing out at eachother and dissing eachother hence creating a great big scene?

Now,they are perfect enemies...both are not only rivals when it comes to real life,but media wise as well...both are competing with eachother in the music biz as well as when it comes to acting in films!

Agreed it was shallow on Aaron's part to cheat on his girlfriend.I agree it was even shallow on Lindsay's part to betray her best friend's trust.But is ruining years worth of friendship and memories just cause of A GUY?

Like i said,i've been in this situation and i reacted exactly how Hilary did.But now when i think of it,i feel nothing could substitute the amount of fun we had together.I'm not saying i regret it.But you still feel connected to a certain person one day and suddenly you just shut them out of your life...one day you are the best of friends and the next day you realise,you were better off as strangers...



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40 comments:

Ar Ar Ar Arrrrr said...

I'm first in spinning da cut.

Wooo..Hooo!!

Ar Ar Ar Arrrrr said...

I saw this story in some E! show that was going on late night one weekend.

I was like...whooaaa...Hillary dating Aaron when he was not even making money.

Hillary even composed one song for Aaron, in one of her albums, while in laabhh ;)

Hmmm...later on Lindsay started going out with FAZ (do u watch "That's 70's show"...he is that foreign guy with funny accent)

I dont know wht happend to Hillary..is she still single??

Hmmmm...

I need to download more of her pics now....lemme get done with this sh!tty report and then I will hunt for her snaps

Greetz Mich!!
and hows ur cold,cough, and wht not?
Take care

Anonymous said...

Alright now i ain't gonna come....:X, someone's forgetting something quite deliberately

Vipul said...

who ditched u mich?

Ar Ar Ar Arrrrr said...

one day you are the best of friends and the next day you realise,you were better off as strangers...
Oh yeah...that hurts loads..

Chillax Mich...

Hope that things go fine for you soon.

Hugzzz!!

Tanvi said...

michh ellee..lol i hate both of em..i like hilary more than lindsay though..i juz hate lindsay i dunoe why though lol..aaronz ok but they all r juz stupid media attention grabberz

lol n the frnd talk..lol been there done that...ur so close to start with n then u juz realize how wrong u were..yep yep noe how it feelz

*givez an evil look to z000nie*..wut word did u use..wen hilary was in WUT?

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

Nice post nice post!!

lol South paw's fuming ... he wants a post on shakira right?? lol

That's sad and really true @ one day you are the best of friends and the next day you realise,you were better off as strangers...


Wht happened? how have u been in such a situation??

Michelle said...

@ z000nie - yep lindsay wuz goin out wid vilmer valderrema(hope i spelt it right) frm tht 70z show.he dusn really hav tht accent in real life...yeaa...

@ southy - sorry i swear i'll do it!!

@ wandu - long story *sighs*

Michelle said...

@ taan vee - yea even i cant stand lindsay.shez a fake u kno wats havin,oh im so wasted all the time type.lol.yea well...sumtinz juz dun work out :)

@ cheesy - hehe yea hez pissed wimme...:p and well loong story!!!its been quite some time now but i kinna remembered it

Vipul said...

wats the story?

Ar Ar Ar Arrrrr said...

I knew t000nie was going to notice that word...

Hehehe :)






Mich, you didnt replied to ma msg on YM
Grr.....

Im hurt :( :(

*sob*

*sob*

:(((((

radiantbear said...

Interesting Info, to tell you the turth I am not really into thier life's.

cheers,
NY?

Kroopa Shah (Kr00pz) said...

Well well, the best-friends-turned-enemies-over-a-guy issue. What can I say about it? Sometimes common sense fails to prevail which is why you end up breaking perfectly good relationships.
Everyone was wrong here. But I think I would be mad too if I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me with my bnest friend. I don't know if I would create this big a scene though!!

Keshi said...

lol I read abt this love triangle...I can only say they have few years to grow up..then they shall be fine :)

Keshi.

ITACHI said...

I'll not call him or her "best friends"

if he stab me.. coz he doesnt respect me..."respect" is the basic thing in any relationship...

strawy said...

oh i read about this too,
sad na, i mean how can a best friend do something like that ?
anyways "life is a bitch"
anything is possible...

****one day you are the best of friends and the next day you realise,you were better off as strangers...***

so well said , even i regert sometimes to make some meany friends ... anyways this is how v learn na... it hurts for sure but still v get a lesson too
hugss michie ...cool post


st000nie

Michelle said...

@ wandu - mebbe sum other time wen ur on on yahoo :)

@ z000nie - which msg :((

@ nanyaa? - lolz blv me its quite entertainin!!

@ kroopa - exactly...gettin mad iz a diff matter...creatin a big scene made it to the media then again the media dusn really miss nethin hehe

@ keshi - hehehe as they say ''puppy love'' i say BLAH :p

@ itachi - yes respect is a very imp thing in a relationship...i hav some guy frnds tht treat their gfz like dirt...i feel like whackin them...

@ st000nie - sumtimes it happens cuzza jealousy...which was the root cause in my case...but yea i agree sumtimes ''life is a bitch''...

@ deev yaa - lolz...woh sabak seekh gayi cuz shez regrettin it now...lolz aww buddhi ka baal yum!!!! :P :P

PuNeEt said...

hey fundu post...
ye and this happens in most of the relationships...

one day you are the best of friends and the next day you realise,you were better off as strangers
ooollaaalaaaa.. thats a bullzeye
very well said...

same happnd with me too...
bt not for the same reason...

take care n smilezzzzzzzz
Cheers

uttara said...

awwwwwwwwww thats soooo sad
:(((((((((

hey babes
hows ya ...i missssssssssseddddddddddd u loadsssssss

ooo tara ...loll

huzzzzzzzzz

Michelle said...

@ puneet - thanx ye :) it happens man... :) tc!

@ oo ta raa - hehe awww me mishin u tooo :))

messys musings said...

aww fay... i know i sound too old now... lol i m old... but this thing sounds real silly whn u grow old n r wiser...

hows u by the way???

Michelle said...

yea i kno it does :p :)
m betta thanx :)

sLuG said...

kidz ;)...ugh...yz it tat i dun giv a damn even if i wanna :-/
Newayez...u chyll...u noe wudz moe imp...lyk duh...ppl cant b more of a kid than wen they turn unforgiving

Dewdrop said...

all these celebrity make ups and break ups are just unbelievable

exasparater said...

hmmm... thats bad to see a intruder..

just forget the past and speak with him/her.

saurav said...

I agree with Dewdrop...

Anonymous said...

lol.. a guy takes the credit atleast somewhere

Devilish Angel said...

Friendship is an unvaliable thing...

Devilish Angel said...

sorry, unvaluable thing... She/he cannt be a good friend if they cheat.

uttara said...

hey mich...

muahhhhhhh u know wat .. everything is destined .... sometimes good things r destined n bad things we create ourselves :D .. so its no use saying they shudnt have been frnds at all ... n better off strangers

its not only friendship .. same with any relationship ... god creates .. n r there to destroy ...


have a gr888 day babes

uttara

uttara said...

** n we r there to destroy it :)**

ooo taaa raa

uttara said...

zombie ........


hey babes .....i totally agree with u .. that will get sooo many thing in place .. rather than being a cut throat enemies...

uttara

Michelle said...

@ slug - ugh...adults!! lol ye ye ye ur cho cuteee coochie coochie cooo muaaa :p

@ dewdy - totally!!

@ exasparater - well we arent really on speakin terms...but thtz k cuz we hardly see eachother now we both hav our own lives...

@ avik - so do i :)

@ sonu - lol ;)

@ vanathi - well she was really a good frnd but sumtimes...my thing happened cuzza jealousy but in a way ur right...if she cant b happy for her frnd then she din care after all

@ oo taa raa - i dunno but i feel it is we tht create our own destiny...

@ z0mbie - heyyy cheekz...nice to hear frm ya after so long...hope ur doin fine :)

Invincible said...

i dont like this lindsay anyway.
and this ditching saga is pretty common in hollywood.

How did you land urself into it :((
but it's history now na, so forget it :))

Michelle said...

hehe even i dun like her...yep its like very common...

well...din really wish for it to happen :( it happened :((

yea...its history :)

tulipspeaks said...

i've been through this and being a helpless victim doesn't help me to survive :(

and its certainly something i don't wanna think about any longer..i had enough


muuuaxx and huggsss

=am000nie-in-tears=

Michelle said...

awww amuu...c'mere u need a BIG HUG!!!!

its k man...thr r a lotta scumbags out thr u hang in thr k?

muaaaaa

Michelle said...

well yea but some frnds turn out to b cheaters but mebbe they neva were true frnds wer they?

Abhishek said...

i luv being alone...
hate FRIENDS

Michelle said...

awwww...i bet u don mean tht!!